Years passed.
I grew up.
I went to college on scholarships, built a career in marketing, and bought a small house near Grandma.
I built a life.
But relationships were hard.
Trust doesn’t come easily when your own mother doesn’t love you.
Grandma remained my constant.
She never missed anything—birthdays, graduations, milestones.
She made sure I always knew I belonged.
But time doesn’t stop.
Her hands grew weaker. Her steps slower.
“Remember when you tried to teach me to bake cookies and we set off the smoke alarm?” I asked one afternoon.
She laughed.
“The neighbors thought the house was on fire. That fireman was so handsome, though… I almost didn’t mind the embarrassment.”
“You flirted with him shamelessly.”
“Life’s too short not to flirt with handsome firemen, Rebecca.”
Then she looked at me seriously.
“Promise me something?”
“Anything.”
“When I’m gone, don’t waste time on bitterness. Your mother made her choice… but don’t let it define your life.”
“I promise.”
Three months later, she was gone.
A stroke in her sleep.
“Peaceful,” the doctor said.
But it didn’t feel peaceful to me.
